Toi et Moi Diamond Engagement Rings
Toi et Moi, meaning "you and me," rings feature two different gemstones side by side, symbolizing the union of two people. Shop the collection in solid gold, with Lab-Grown, Natural, or Moissanite stones.
Toi et Moi — you and me — sets two stones side by side with no single centre. The form dates to the late eighteenth century and returned to prominence through several high-profile engagements, but its appeal is structural as much as sentimental: two medium stones give more presence across the finger than one larger stone of the same combined weight.
The pairing is the decision. Two matched stones of the same shape read as deliberate symmetry; two different shapes — a pear with an oval, a round with an emerald — read as contrast and are the more common choice. Bypass shanks, where the band crosses rather than meets, let the two stones sit at slightly different heights and angles, which usually flatters the pairing more than a flat parallel setting.
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